On my journey of self-discovery and reclaiming my masculinity, I have had the privilege of learning from amazing teachers, mentors, blogs, and platforms dedicated to men.
They all seem to have the same message and recommendations, meditation, seeking therapy, and all sorts of self-development tools meant to bring out the best in you.
They all seem to have missed one key component to truly becoming a defined man, and this one key I learned from a very dear mentor to me who broke it down perfectly, how doing this one thing separates you from most other men and it makes you stand out even in your dating life.
It's not some magical formula that requires you to do anything special nor is it anything that will cost you thousands of dollars. It's something that you can get to work on right now.
The results are amazing, but it requires a slight shift in mindset before you can start.
You're going to have to challenge some of the beliefs that you have had until now and doing that is counterintuitive to what you think works.
However, if you manage to keep your mind open end to allow this principle to guide you, you will see a change in not only yourself but how people respond to you, particularly women.
When I learned this it took me a while to grasp the fundamental truth in the concept but I had to trust myself that I had it in me to go through with it, so I did not sabotage myself by overthinking
It is not an outlandish idea or anything special really, it's just an understanding that comes from placing value on yourself as a man and having an internal locus of control rather than outsourcing your need for validation to the outside.
What I'm talking about here is having something that is genuinely yours that defines who you are on your terms, and only you can determine what your worth is without relying on the outside to do it for you.
It's that simple but profound, it will change your life.
What is it that I'm talking about can you guess? It is having a set of hobbies interests or activities that you do that bring joy and satisfaction but have nothing to do with a woman or anybody else for that matter.
It is things that connect you to your inner child that consume your focus and attention, when you're in the zone, temporarily you're removed from your world and you go into almost a trancelike state where you're immersed in something profound.
When you do this thing or these things, not only are you discovering yourself more and more but you're also engaging in meaningful activities that fully tap into your masculine energy and focus, so when you're done you feel satisfied, empty but fulfilled, a pleasant death if you will.
I encourage you to find what this is for you, for me I discovered that fitness and putting my body through adversity and pain is a positive way of reinforcing confidence, competence, and trust in myself that I am capable of protecting not only myself but my loved ones.
Exercise is the one sacred thing that I do for myself that gives me something that I don't have to look outside to get, go and find yours.
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