I have watched quite a depressing video on Youtube where a woman is confessing to having cheated on her boyfriend with several men, besides that, she also says she tricked him into believing she was pregnant with his child so she could get financial benefits from him.
Paternity fraud is not a new thing, but I will not get into that now, the main point here is men have no choice but to have sexual discipline when dealing with women to avoid a lot of these problems they are facing.
We can blame women all day for lying about being pregnant, extorting money, deception, and other manipulative tactics they use to survive, however, who is the first person who should be held accountable for all this mess? the man.
In previous articles, I have written about leading yourself and carrying yourself with the utmost self-respect and dignity, sexual discipline falls right into that way of being. From the moment you approach a woman, leadership begins there, its absolutely your responsibility as the man to lead the interaction and be in control of what you say, where you go, and what happens between the two of you.
She has consent along the way of course, but the responsibility of her safety and everything else falls on you as the man. Having said that, by the time you get into bed with a woman, there is no excuse as to why you should be in that situation without your full awareness and leadership.
A lot of men like to say women seduced them into compromising situations, and sex happened, then when pregnancy happens their first instinct is to deny all responsibility. As much as women are guilty of paternity fraud like in the video I watched, the man has as much to blame because he should be in full control of his impulses.
Sexual discipline is not talked much about because it is a sensitive topic, but I challenge men to get a hold of their sexual desires, no one will teach you how to be in control of yourself, therefore, avoid these embarrassing situations where you are falsely accused of getting a woman pregnant, and consequently extorted.
I will hold women accountable for paternity fraud and extortion in another article, but in this one, I want to talk to the fellas, learn from these stories and make it a priority to learn sexual discipline. Understand that your weaknesses and lack of self-control are readily exploited by manipulative women who are out to survive in the world through dubious means.
The only way you can avoid being a victim is not to be an easy target, open your eyes and see how your sexuality is also being monetized, how many women out here openly say they only care about the financial assistance a man can offer them, and they don't care about who he is a human being?
No one is going to save you from these predatory women, also the fact that you give away your power and choice so easily makes it easier for them to turn the tables and gaslight you into thinking you are crazy for even thinking they could act so petty. Look for healthy ways to channel your sexual energy like exercise, alternatively, learn seduction and get your needs met. I will be posting more on that in future articles.
Women can detect men with a strong frame and are not thirsty for sex, they will test to see how much they can get away with, and when you hold your position and are not afraid to call bad behavior out, they will not even dare try to trick you or manipulate you, they count on your weakness and ignorance to carry out their plans.
Reclaim your masculinity and be the man women cannot exploit, be the man they desire to be with, not use as a means to an end.
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