Dating women in today's world is like walking through a minefield, at night, without a flashlight. You are treading on dangerous ground if you don't have a good understanding of women's true nature, you risk stepping on a live mine and exploding, ruining your life that is.
I will talk about 3 facts about women's nature that once you accept them, you stand a better chance of loving women for who they, not hating them for what they are not, and will never be, which is the idealized version of them you have built in your head for a long time.
I want to be clear, these are concepts, ideas, you are free to challenge them for yourself and decide if its true or not, and this article is not about bashing them for being this way, its mainly to shed light on women's biological nature that influences their behavior in the mating strategy.
The main reason for exhibiting these traits is purely for survival reasons, men and women are wired differently, and we have different mating strategies and all we are trying to do, on a primitive level is to advance our genes forward, in other words, survive.
The 3 behavior traits are;
Hypergamy
Briffaults Law
Solipsism
Hypergamy:
Hypergamy in simple terms is women's age-old tendency to marry up the social ladder. This is the most talked-about behavior in women that triggers men in the dating market. Women employ elaborate tests designed to gauge a man's status in society, and the higher up he is in status, the more attractive he is, this is the reason men have to work to bring their value high up, otherwise, it's going to be an uphill task trying to get a girl to like you if she perceives you to be beneath her in status, meaning she has more money, more connections, and more options than you.
Briffault's Law:
This law states that it is the woman who determines if she will accept a man's advances or not, meaning that if she feels you have value to bring to her life then she can consider a relationship with you, the only power you have is approaching her and stating your case, but she decides if she will give you a shot or not. So if you have no value to bring, she will not consider you as a potential mate for a long-term relationship.
Solipsism:
Women are heavily influenced by emotions, because they are more right-brained they tend to lean more towards feelings, rather than logic when it comes to interpreting their reality. Because these feelings are constantly changing, without any warning or predictable behavior patterns, their reality also seems to shift based on how they feel at any given point. This makes them come off as liars, or undecided, but the truth is they act based on feelings, for the most part, especially when it comes to important matters like men, dating, and relationships.
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