Are You The Cleanup Guy, Or Her Prince Charming?

A controversial take on marriage is that women have fun in their hot 20s with whomever they want, without any serious regard for family, or the kind of man they would want to spend the rest of their life with, and then only start to prioritize a husband only when they slowly approach the proverbial wall.

Watching how a majority of women make their dating decisions validates this observation, and it's no longer a controversial take or a jab at women, but rather the truth about their mating strategies.

The manosphere catches a lot of heat for proposing that being desired by a woman past her prime, for marriage, is not flattering to the man. I concur with that observation, when a woman who had endless dating options in her 20s doesnt capitalize on any of those options, and only wants serious commitment when she has had enough fun, or is sold on these lies fed to women that they should get married only when they get tired of bills, then its true if she thinks youd make a great husband, chances are she views you as the sucker to be the one to make her poor choices right.

Imagine being a man working hard to live right, work hard to reach financial stability, be in great shape, and be at the top of your game only to be considered as the one who will receive what is left of a woman who enjoyed her youth with the cream of the crop but didnt require, or get security from any of those chads, so youre the one to commit to her, secure her future, plus be monogamous.

To make it worse, you will never get to enjoy the best parts of her femininity, but she gets to enjoy the best part of your masculinity because you're at the height of your success, you're wiser, more experienced, on your purpose, and full of wisdom.

That doesn't sound like a good deal. What is the point of this post? to remind you guys to vet ruthlessly, and to guard your commitment like the prize it is. You will be shamed or accused of hating women for having this stand, let alone speaking such ideas out loud to women, but remember, you deserve a good woman who matches the work you have done on yourself.

Does this mean you can't consider women above a certain age for marriage? no, the point is to observe keenly how a womans mindset is, the ones that boldly proclaim the past doesnt matter, yet have a hard time opening up about their dating history probably want a clean up guy foolish enough to fall for their seduction, and give them what they want, long term commitment.

If a woman is not able to simply articulate how she will add value to your life, or gets triggered or defensive when asked about her value, chances are you're dealing with someone looking to be saved.

Don't be the cleanup guy, you deserve more for your commitment.