I am laughing hard at myself as I write this article because I'm guilty of exactly what I will talk about on this topic. My girlfriend has inspired me to double down on this, I have always doubted my ability to make decisions quickly, but I no longer struggle as I used to.
Do you know one of the most attractive traits a man can have? besides confidence and being tall and all the other good qualities this one trades will separate you from most men because it is a plastic trait of masculinity.
Let's take a scenario where you and your girl have gone out to eat or you at the supermarket shopping, we have discussed what you might do together but because we both know you're a leader as we have discussed in previous articles she is waiting for you to give direction.
Now, most guys will think that it is romantic to keep asking for approval from their woman about every single decision to take, but you will be surprised how wrong they are. So what do you do when she asks you "babe what do you think"?
Do you throw the question back to her and ask her the same thing? Do you ignore her and act like she did not ask your question because you do not want to make a move? Do you fumble through your words as you try to decide what to do?
I know you can see where I'm going with this, I'm talking about being decisive. being decisive is very attractive to women because it shows that you have a clear mind and you're able to lead confidently without hesitation.
Every time a woman looks up to you for a decision and you turn around and ask her the same thing, you lose one point in attraction, and I can tell you that it's not a good place to be.
My girlfriend has helped me a lot on this, and from experience, I can tell you that whenever I have been decisive things have gone very smoothly between us.
The reason being decisive is so attractive is because it firmly asserts your masculinity and leadership and allows the woman to follow your lead without having to think about too many decisions, she can just have fun around you.
Why is this so important? Because in her own in her life, a woman has to make decisions all the time and this is exhausting to her feminine essence, she would rather have someone else make decisions from time to time, she is terrified of making wrong choices.
I am not in any way suggesting that women cannot make decisions what I am saying is that for polarity to be strong between a woman and a man the man has to be decisive so that the woman can follow his lead and relieve some of her anxiety about making this making the wrong decisions.
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