Fellas, do you know what your value is to a woman, for the most part? what is it that they're truly after, and desire the most out of everything else you have to offer? what is the one thing that all women will say they want from a man in regards to a relationship?
The answer is, you guessed it, commitment. Your honest, lifelong commitment, is what women value you for when they are considering a long-term relationship. That means that you are holding something very valuable that is desirable to all women.
Do you now understand why you have to value yourself as a man and recognize that you have a lot to offer to a woman and that you cannot take this value for granted? maybe you never looked at it this way and have squandered it in the past, it's time to reevaluate that.
A woman desires to be chosen out of many and provided lifelong security and assurance that she is the one you will spend your life with, that is why she will make you jump through hoops to try to get you to invest in her and prove to her how much you want her.
This is well and good, but remember, you are the one to pick her out of your many options and bring her into your life as your partner, this puts you in the dominant position, and makes you the real prize because you are the one to give commitment.
Therefore, you cannot afford to take your commitment lightly, women only hold leverage when it comes to who they sleep with, but you determine who you will commit to, ultimately that is the higher value, that is why you need to reframe your mind and value yourself more.
Media, society, dishonest men, and other women have told women they are the prize, which is true, but I say women are a catch, but the man is the prize because his commitment is the more sought after value therefore he determines if a long term relationship even happens.
Raise your standards fellas, and make your commitment as desirable as possible because the truth is, women want you to commit to them more than they want you for sex. Constantly work on yourself to become a high-value man whose commitment is worth having.
Some women will act like they are doing you a favor by just being with them but remind yourself that they too are after your commitment, and these are just seduction tactics they are employing to get you, you cannot get upset by these games, just realize you are the prize.
With great power comes great responsibility, now that you have known your commitment is the prize, you do not need to disrespect women or shove it in their face that you're more important, neither do you need to become arrogant with your value, just be aware.
Walk with your head high and your self-respect intact knowing that all the women who desire to be married all want your commitment, you are spoilt for choice, therefore, there is no reason to be needy, clingy, desperate, or in a hurry. Save your commitment.
Take your time to vet women properly when dating, check out my previous article titled its okay to have standards. You deserve to be with a woman who has made the effort to earn your commitment rather than being entitled to it.
You, on the other hand, have to be a worthy man whose commitment means something, not a prison sentence to a life of misery for the woman, reclaim your masculinity, and make your commitment your most prized asset.
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