Have you ever noticed that girls learn from a very early age how to get what they want from parents, siblings, friends, and any adults who want to play with them, or give them attention simply by acting out, playing victim, being sweet, and innocent, throwing a tantrum?
To be fair, boys do this too, but girls seem to perfect the art of leveraging their looks and innocence to get their emotional needs met. This behavior does not stop, even as adults women have no problem getting favors and things done for them by putting on a show.
I am not here to throw shade or shame them for this, I simply want you to understand that a woman leverages what she has, to get what she wants from you, the man, and not in ethical means all the time, just be aware that you give in to this because you are wired to save her.
You find it hard as a man to ignore a woman's distress call, it's an evolutionary phenomenon that is hard-wired in you to respond to a woman's plight because it makes you feel like a hero, as it should. However, what happens when this honorable trait in you is taken advantage of?
Has anyone ever told you that this is one of the many qualities you have that add value to a woman's life, therefore it should be appreciated? are you aware that this very trait is used against you in the dating market, by selfish, damaged women? and that you allow it because you are not aware, you are weak, or simply ignorant?
Reclaim your masculinity by realizing how you disrespect yourself anytime you allow a woman's beauty and looks to cloud your judgment and compromise yourself, you set the wrong precedence when you show a woman that you can easily be won over by their beauty.
Unfortunately, the truth has to be told gentlemen, you allow this to happen because you pedestalize beauty over your self-respect. There is nothing wrong with appreciating a woman's beauty, but it should not be a weakness where you simply cannot say no to a woman because she is beautiful.
In your dating experiences, you will come across many beautiful women, and you will start to realize that many of them know they have that power over you, and will use it to manipulate you into giving them control, willingly.
Learn to see the beauty in women, but still recognize that does not mean they hold more value than you, you have a lot of value too, therefore be strong enough to withstand their shit tests, games, and power struggle with you.
A woman's behavior should be what you focus more on, not her looks. The way she acts will reveal a pattern of thoughts and mindset, this is where you judge her on, not her looks. On my journey to reclaiming my masculinity, I have acquired the discipline to ignore a woman's looks and focus on the way her energy is around me.
I no longer do favors for women or let them have sway over my decisions simply because they are beautiful and they smile at me, I can recognize when it's a game and when they genuinely need help. At their core, they are still the little girl who learned to get her way simply by being a girl. Instead of resenting them for this, have boundaries.
Lastly, wake up and see the truth about women's beauty as a currency that is traded for your resources, time, and attention. That means if you allow yourself to be naive and gullible to beauty, you will be a victim to low consciousness women who will manipulate you every chance they get.
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