A simple question for you guys, have you ever bought something that you thought was genuine only to realize after the purchase that you were swindled out of your money and it was nothing more than a fugazi?
When you realized that you did not buy the product rather you bought into the illusion of the product, did you blame the salesperson who convinced you to make the purchase, or did you blame yourself for being duped into believing that something was real when it was not?
What did you do when you realized you wasted your money on lies, did you learn your lesson and promised yourself to do better next time or did you continue trying to make the lies fit into the reality that you want?
I am going to be the first one to admit that indeed men lie to women just to get what they want, men will promise women the world and tell them nice things to try and bring down their walls so that they can get sex.
That's not the full story, there's another side to lies and deception that is not commonly talked about, but when it is discussed the knee-jerk reaction is always that not everyone does that, there are exceptions to the rule, and the deflection takes on many forms.
What am I going on about here? well, the point I am making is women are very cunning and they're very good at selling men a dream too, just to get what they want, only that they are a little more crafty, their lies are more convoluted and sometimes hard to detect until it's too late.
Have you ever heard of a term called conditional femininity? read any blog or watch any content for men and you are going to come across conditional femininity, for the longest time men have always said that they're attracted to a feminine woman who inspires them to be masculine.
Women are attracted to masculine men and they have always made it clear that they cannot date a weak man they can walk all over, so it seems that fundamentally, we all understand that polarity is the key that unlocks attraction.
So, just like men deceive women that they are strong reliable, and trustworthy, women have also discovered that if they play the role of a feminine woman and give a man what he desires the most, then she can get what she wants without having to break a sweat.
Some women have managed to play this game for a long time to secure a long-term commitment from a high-value man thereby setting up a precedent for other women that they don't have to do anything or make any real changes to who they are just to secure a ring.
Why does all this matter to you if you're a man on a mission to be the best version of yourself? it matters because you need to be aware that you are a target to predatory women looking to trap you to get your commitment, resources, and seed.
Especially desperate women who find it difficult to admit to themselves that they may have mismanaged their youth, and by the time they realize that they don't have a lot of time to waste, it's probably unreasonable to make a lot of demands, so they get desperate.
Reclaim your masculinity by refusing to give away your most prized possession to bitter, old women who have hit the wall hard, your long-term commitment. You deserve a woman who is naturally feminine and loves it, not a strategist looking to cash out before it's too late.
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