One of my main goals for starting this blog is to share some of the concepts I have learned along my journey to reclaim my masculinity, with other men.
You may have heard the term 'frame' in the manosphere or dating blogs, frame is simply a framework of thinking, behaving, and being that you have created for yourself as a man that determines how you move in the dating world as you interact with women.
An even simpler definition is rules and boundaries that you establish with women, a man's frame is his code, his value system, his constitution within his mind that guides him. Dealing with women will no doubt require you to have a strong frame.
Personally, my frame when dealing with women is that I lead, she follows. This does not mean I force things down her throat, or dictate with an iron fist, I simply do what I wish to do to move things forward with her, for example taking her hand and bringing her closer to me.
Frame is also how you view the world, your self-beliefs, and your self-confidence. Women will constantly test your frame to see what you are made of, this is biology at work, she needs to feel your guidance and strength before she can trust you to lead her. Setting the frame early on in any interaction with women is crucial.
A weak frame is disastrous, a strong frame guarantees you the results you seek. Allowing a woman to change your plans each time you try to set a date, and you going along with her ideas without asserting yourself is an example of a weak frame. Letting a woman know that you appreciate her suggestions but that your idea is more fun, and that she will not regret following your lead is an example of a strong frame.
With practice, you will start to become more aware of just how frame is your best tool in seduction, and the more you keep your frame strong, the more confident you feel, which in turn gets you more girls, dates, and success. Reclaim your masculinity and maintain a strong frame!
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