Remember the first time you approached a girl you liked, opened the conversation, and got her to laugh and feel comfortable enough to give you her number?
Now contrast that with the first time you signed up to a dating app, matched with a girl you liked, struck up a conversation and got her number, then planned a date.
Which of these two strategies has had better success in your dating experiences? There has been a general decline in men taking the risk to approach women in person, risk rejection, possibly making a fool of themselves, or make a good enough impression to spark attraction.
Here's my perspective on why men are shying away from the 'hunt'
Social norms and expectations have changed: Over time, social norms and expectations about gender roles, dating, and relationships have shifted. In the past, it was more common for men to initiate romantic interactions with women, and for women to be more passive and wait for men to make the first move. However, in recent decades, there has been a greater emphasis on gender equality and empowerment, and many people now believe that both men and women should feel comfortable initiating romantic interactions and expressing their interest in others.
Technology has changed the dating landscape: With the rise of dating apps and social media, people now have more options for meeting and communicating with potential partners. This can make it easier for some people to find dates without having to approach someone in person. However, it can also make it more difficult for others who prefer face-to-face interactions or who may feel overwhelmed by the abundance of options and the pressure to present themselves in a certain way online.
Fear of rejection and #MeToo movement: In recent years, there has been a growing awareness of sexual harassment, assault, and misconduct, as well as a greater willingness to speak out against these behaviors. This has led some men to feel more cautious about approaching women, fearing being seen as disrespectful or potentially crossing a boundary. Additionally, some men may hesitate to approach women because they fear rejection or don't want to be seen as overly aggressive or pushy.
Whichever strategy you think works best for you, online or offline dating, I encourage you to apply all the tools you have available to you to
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