Ever since you were a teenager, you were pretty fascinated by girls whether at school, your neighborhood, or community, but did anyone particularly an older man, or your father sit you down to teach you about girls?
For a lot of guys, including me, we had to figure things out for ourselves, and navigate the murky waters of attraction all on our own. I have made many mistakes and fumbled a lot when it comes to women because of a lack of knowledge about attraction and women.
This blog is an attempt to correct some of the skewed understanding regarding dating and seduction. Dating like a pro in my view is simply understanding what you value to women is, putting a price on your time and attention, and being unapologetic about what you want.
The first lesson in dating like a pro is getting rid of all ideas you have about women that have not resulted in the outcomes you want, the most common one is that you must date only one woman, shower her with affection, be a nice guy and she will fall into your arms.
To date like a pro means allowing yourself to have many options with women, let me be clear, I do not advocate lying to women to get them to bed or into a relationship, so the first thing to do when learning how to date like a pro is cultivating honesty with women.
Honesty will make it easier to seduce and date women far more than manipulation or deception. If you meet a woman and she does not meet your standards, or is rude, or seems uninterested, have the balls to cut the interaction and move onto a better candidate.
Dating like a pro means being willing to cut loose women who are not that into you, are blowing hot and cold, disrespect your time, or want to use you for your time and attention. The majority of women have no problem hanging around only to get free attention.
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