There is one thing I find fascinating with guys in the dating world, I used to make this mistake too until I realized that it was not bringing me the outcomes I wanted. It took me a long time to rewire my brain and accept that what I thought worked, was not it.
It was very easy for me to assume that my actions should have been appreciated and reciprocated, boy was I wrong, and so many guys make this mistake too, so this article will hopefully inspire you to look at that behavior and make some adjustments.
You will be surprised at how much more successful you will be when you stop this and adopt a different mindset, but at the same time, making this one change will also filter a lot of women who are out to waste your time, and give no value in return.
You might also get a lot of pushback from many women as well because a lot of them are invested in getting their way with you through your ignorance, and therefore they will react emotionally and act as if you did something wrong, yet it's because they lost.
I'm talking about long threads of endless chatting on texts, DMs, and Whatsapp. Texting too much means giving those women your time (which is literally your life) and attention and they have no reason to see you in person.
Women love attention, particularly non-sexual attention so when you're constantly chatting with them on the phone, you are already fulfilling their emotional need for attention, but ask yourself, what are you gaining?
So if you are interested in a woman in a romantic way, you should not spend so much time chatting with her, once you have established comfort and a good rapport, its more productive to set up dates and meet in person, rather than endless chatting.
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