If you're a single guy and you're in the dating market, I'm sure you'll agree with me it's starting to get frustrating finding a connection with that special woman from a sea of available options.
It can get frustrating when you don't seem to find somebody who aligns with your goals values and ideals, or if you're anything like your old self, you might be struggling with comparing yourself with other men in the dating market.
Or perhaps you don't feel like you make the cut or that you're good enough, these are valid and normal feelings of insecurity that everybody has gone through in their lifetime.
I would like to say in this article that it's perfectly normal to wonder how you rank among other men in the dating pool.
We can use the most obvious parameters to determine your value as a potential partner to the opposite sex.
The most common things we can use to compare are height, status, looks, etc. there are those qualities that you are born with, and there are those qualities that you strive to acquire.
Traits like looks and height are genetic gifts that you're either born with or not. The good news is there are other equally valuable qualities that you can work on as a man, that are completely within your control that matter.
It is pointless to worry about the qualities that you have little control over, instead, focus on the ones that you can work on starting today.
That's why this blog exists, to share with you knowledge and information that you could use to work on the qualities that you can acquire that make you stand out.
One of the most unique qualities that will separate you from other men is being non-reactive. In particular, being non-reactive to negative emotional reactions from women.
What I mean by this is no matter what a woman does, it does not throw you off your center.
I don't mean that you allow disrespect and you do nothing about it.
I mean your internal emotional state is not determined by a woman's external emotional reactions.
You govern your emotional state and you're in control of your reactions, in particular when she says silly, stupid or irrational things you do not react negatively.
You pause for a second and you maintain self-control, or simply ignore her behavior, in other words, you don't participate in her emotional reactions.
This one trade alone separates you from so many other men who get irritated by women's irrational behavior and lose control, but you are different, you maintain your composure even amidst her unstable emotions.
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