How many times have you heard women say the phrase "He is just a friend" have you ever wondered what it really means? do you actually believe that a woman considers you a true friend?
How many women have you tried to date romantically only for them to tell you they only want friendship? Asking yourself these questions brings to light your own naivety in believing that being a woman's friend only when you want something else, is a good strategy to apply.
Friendship is an easy, safe category to call someone that hasn't actually provided real value to you, but you do not wish to be disrespectful towards them, yet you need them for some kind of value or validation they provide. This is how women see men they feel nothing for.
It is okay to own your sexual nature as a man and express it in a respectful, ethical and responsible way. You do not have to settle for friendship with a woman if you want more.
Some reasons why platonic friendships with women are not natural are;
You already have male friends to fulfill your friendship needs.
Men and women have fundamentally different hobbies and interests, men like masculine things like cars, sports, etc, women like feminine things like beauty, fashion, etc therefore there are few common interests to share.
Your value to a woman even as just a friend is higher than her value to you, as a friend you give her your time, attention, protection, and sometimes provision, you basically get nothing from her if you like her more than a friend.
There is nothing she can offer you that other women you date romantically cannot provide for you.
Biologically, we are not exactly wired to just hang out as friends, nature's code has one agenda, procreation only, aligning yourself with this code makes your life much easier than fighting it just so that you can fit into society's norms of platonic friendships, its okay to stand on the side of truth.
It would be wise for you as a man to start reclaiming your masculinity and realize keeping platonic friendships with women when you want more is wasting your value on them, and they will never escalate things from friendship to dating.
Approach women you like with the intention to date them romantically, not hang out with them as an errand boy ready to be their go-to friend when they have emotional breakdowns, want favors, and need free attention.
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