On my journey to reclaiming my masculinity, I have had to learn how to value my most precious and valuable asset in the dating world, something that is craved by ALL women, all around the world regardless of race, color, or ethnicity.
I am talking about time and attention, it took me a while to realize how much free attention I was giving away to women, and wondering why I ended up getting rejected each and every time.
Women love attention, that is to see they love being seen, heard, appreciated, and validated by men. This love for attention means that you have a lot of value to them that you do not realize, your non-sexual attention to be precise.
Reclaiming your masculinity requires you to start putting a premium price on your attention, you're going to have to be disciplined in this area, realize that the moment you step up to a woman, you are immediately creating an effect on her, emotionally.
Being intentional with that power you hold makes you very attractive, there is nothing wrong with being selective, having standards, and only giving you attention to women you find attractive.
I am not saying you should act cold and dismissive towards women, simply realizing that your attention is what they thrive on makes you more aware of how you spend it on them. Making them work to get your attention is what you should focus on.
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